Millerton – Deborah Barlow Merwin, 72, a thirty-seven-year resident of Millerton, NY and formerly a ten-year resident of Amenia, NY died peacefully on Monday, October 14, 2024 at her home in Millerton, surrounded by her loving family. Debbie had a decades long career as a Medical Secretary for the Sharon Hospital in Sharon, CT and former Hudson River Community Health Center in Amenia, NY as well as others.
Born August 19, 1952 in Brockport, NY she was the daughter of Duane Barlow of Brockport, NY and the late Patricia (Rayburn) Barlow. Following high school she attended Central City Business Institute in Syracuse, NY. On August 25, 1973 in Brockport, NY she married John M. Merwin, together sharing over fifty-one years of marriage. Mr. Merwin survives at their home in Millerton. The Merwin’s were longtime members of the Congregational Church of Salisbury in Salisbury, CT. Debbie’s greatest joy was spending time with her beloved family and her adoring grandchildren.
In addition to her husband John, Debbie is survived by two daughters, Melissa A. Merwin of Meriden, CT and Sarah M. Thomen and her husband Corey of Falls Village, CT; two grandchildren, Ian and Gabriel Thomen of Falls Village; her brother, David Barlow and his wife Debra of Holley, NY; two sisters, Rebecca Conrow and her husband Thomas of Brockport and Cynthia Wilson and her husband Robert of Albion, NY; her nieces and nephews, Spencer, Matthew, Joy, Jill, Andrew, Peter, Nicholas and Avery and several additional family members and close friends.
Calling hours will be held on Friday, October 18, 2024 from 4pm to 7pm at the Scott D. Conklin Funeral Home, 37 Park Avenue, Millerton, NY 12546. Funeral services will take place on Saturday, October 19, 2024 at 10:30am at the Congregation Church of Salisbury, 30 Main Street, Salisbury, CT 06068. A reception is Debbie’s honor will follow in the fellowship hall at the Congregation Church of Salisbury. Burial will be private at Irondale Cemetery in Millerton at a later date. Memorial contributions may be made to the American Cancer Society or the American Red Cross. To send an online condolence to the family, flowers to the service or to plant a tree in Debbie’s memory, please visit www.conklinfuneralhome.com.